It’s not an invitation to tickle me.
It’s not because I dont know how to have fun.
It’s not because I need to ‘take it easy’.
It’s not because I don’t know flirting when I see it.
It’s because when I am tickled and I say ‘no’ and ‘stop’ it is not respected.
It’s because when I am tickled I’m often being held in place by a man who is ‘trying to flirt’.
It’s because when I am tickled a male is telling me that I should enjoy being tickled when I clearly don’t
It’s because when I try to get away, I am often pulled back into place and tickled with more agression.
It’s because the feeling of being tickled, for me, has far too many parallels with the feeling of being fucking raped. Enough parallels to send me into a fucking panic attack.
Okay?
So when I say I don’t like being fucking tickled?
Can U Not?
It’s not that hard.